Man Vs. Bear: Solo Women Who Hike and Camp Respond
Would you rather be alone in the woods with a man or a bear?
This is the question posed to women in a viral Tik Tok debate that has been circulating the internet over the past month. To the surprise of many, a majority of women chose the bear. The question has sparked conversation surrounding women’s safety on broader levels, as a vast majority have indicated they actually don’t feel safe in many spaces with men.
While the trend has prompted conversation on a weighty topic that could be unpacked within many different contexts, what does this mean for women who adventure solo outdoors? How can the trails, campgrounds and outdoor spaces be comfortable places for women?
Solo hiker and blogger Greg Sakowicz (@fatmanlittletrail) responded to the conversation on Instagram by asking women what he can do as a solo male hiker to make them feel more comfortable on the trail.
His thoughtful response has fostered a healthy dialogue and a safe space for women to share what they feel men could do to make them more comfortable as they are out on solo adventures.
Here is what women have said in the comments:
Trail Etiquette
This goes for all trail users but is especially important to consider as men encountering solo women on the trail. Make your presence known, and avoid startling anyone from behind. This could be “passing on your left” or something similar to let her know you are approaching. Many women stated in the comments that a simple hello or smile as you pass makes them feel at ease, while pointing out that questions like “are you hiking alone?” or “where is the rest of your group?” make them uncomfortable.
Be Accountable to Each Other
Several comments asked men to stand up for women when they aren’t around and to keep other men accountable for their words and actions that are disrespectful towards women. The majority stated that in order to make change, there must be a united front of men who are committed to creating safe spaces for women both on and off the trail.
Ask Questions and Seek to Understand
You never know what someone has been through or what past experiences they are carrying. What one person needs to feel comfortable might be different from another. The comment section indicated that a great place to start is simply facilitating conversation and allowing others to share their experiences and perspectives.
Yes, there are many safety considerations to make before taking on outdoor adventures alone, but for women who love to travel and adventure solo, fearing men should not be one of them.
Sakowicz’s response shows that sometimes it just takes one voice—one voice of understanding and empathy—to rise above the rest and lead the charge for change.